Anonymity guaranteed! Don’t forget: you can get access to Lauri’s Instant Dream Decoding Dictionary on her site. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. So to summarize, I believe this dream is related to some sort of “manly” accomplishment on your part and your inner self is quite pleased.
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The guy orgasms in the end, which in dream life is symbolic of completion. The length of time it took in your dream also suggests this is about something in real life that seemingly took a while. You also were “riding” him so this could be a play on words (dreams just LOVE to do that) in that perhaps you “went along for the ride” as far as a certain situation goes OR perhaps you were “riding” someone in waking life meaning you were really on them, pressuring them to do something. Do you recall accomplishing anything macho and manly around the time of this dream? The enjoyment you experience in the dream is a direct result of something that brought you enjoyment that previous day. In my research, I’ve found that when a male has a guy-on-guy dream it can almost always be connected to having done something particularly “manly” or assertive the previous day, such as getting a promotion, landing a hot date, fixing the carburetor, etc. Nevertheless, I would not offer them information because, you know. Now the guy in your dream is not an actual person so he will likely represent that which is considered male energy: assertiveness, growing a pair and handling a situation. Many researchers have studied gay men in the context of social psychology literature. Therefore, sex in a dream is not necessarily about sex at all but more about merging or uniting qualities, ideas or opinions of the other person into your own self. That being said, it is important to remember - and I know I say this all the time - that your dreams are symbolic and should not be taken literally. However, if you truly did bat for the other team, you would not need a dream to convince you. I suspect it is because the feelings in the dream are very real. Lauri:It is very common to wake up from a gay sex dream and question which team you really do bat for. Does this mean I want to have sex with men?
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But in this dream I was riding this guy and seemed to enjoy it in the dream, it seemed to go on forever until he came inside me. I had a dream that I was having sex with a man, I’m a straight guy that has no interest in males. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it ) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means.
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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex.